Saturday, September 17, 2016

"My pastor-husband is fetish, he married me using charms (juju)," a 39-year-old businesswoman, Mrs Ayomide Ajayi, has told a Lagos court.

 She accused her husband, Kayode, with whom she had five children in their 18-year-old marriage of being fetish.
"When I was single, my husband approached me that he wanted to marry me, I told him that I had a fiancé and that our marriage was near.
"Kayode came back the following day and touched me, I don't know how I got to his village, and I started having babies.
``As an orphan nobody looked for me, but now I am back to my senses," she told an Igando Customary in a Lagos suburb.
 The petitioner accused her husband of infidelity.
"My husband was in the habit of bringing his lovers to our one-room apartment to spend days or months before leaving.
"I always leave the bed for them and sleep on floor, on four occasions I had reported him to our families.
"Recently, he came home with a lady who stole my pants and brassier, I discovered after she had left.
"I told my husband to retrieve my underwears from his lover, he later came home with one of my bra and pant but those were not the underwears that were missing," she said.
Mother of four boys also said that her husband was always threatening her life.
"My husband is threatening to kill me, my hair dresser informed me that anytime I finished making my hair that my husband always come begging her to give him my hair.
"And he always tell me that if I leave him that he will kill me and run away," she said.
Ayomide said that she was the one responsible for feeding the family, paying the house rent and the children’s school fees.
She pleaded with the court to dissolve the union, saying she feared she may contract sexually transmitted diseases (STD) from her husband due to his unfaithfulness.
However, Kayode, 47, a cleric, in his response, denied all the allegations. He said that he paid his bills.
"I pay my bills, I usually give her N500 per day, but she also assists me as any good wife will do." 
Kayode said that he had returned the underwears his lover took away from their house.
He also denied that he never approached his wife's hairdresser for her hair.
The respondent ``begged’’ the court to help him ``beg’’ his wife not to leave him. ``I still love her.’’

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Monday, September 5, 2016

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Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Benefits of divorce

THINKING CORNER.....

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.
After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.
There is no benefit in pride!

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This a perfect example and advise for those dancing in some overrated ego. Share it with your friends.

Credit:Relationship Matters Forum

Sunday, August 21, 2016

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