Does Your Woman Masturbate - Part 5

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To the concluding part of our gist thus far..............

Know Thyself

As long as it doesn’t become an obsession, masturbation is very healthy for all women. As it helps them to get to know what they enjoy, and what spot men must hit if they want to stimulate their bodies as well as some “stress relief”. If you have ever had a single female boss who isn’t getting none or one whose partner is not a performer, then you would understand the need for the “stress relief”.

It’s also evident that most women who have masturbated are more comfortable with their bodies and with letting their men know what satisfies and gratifies them. It’s not about replacing men.

As for my Fellow Men

If you find out that your woman masturbates, don’t ever condemn her for it, nor should you feel insecure. Rather, encourage her to do it for you during foreplay.

Be understanding. Some women might feel that wanking is a very personal experience; others would gladly show you how they make themselves cum. If you pay very close attention to details, she might let you lick up the results.

If your woman is not the type to “touch herself”, encourage her to so. There are several techniques to achieve this during foreplay or sex.

You as the man could rub your finger or penis on her clitoris till she starts writhing away from you or clutches you so tight she could tear that part of the body out. While doing this, don’t be forceful. Pay very close attention to detail. To her every movement and response. Go with her flow, not yours. When her hips start moving when you touch a certain spot, then you are doing a good job. Get to know the spot, start gently, familiarize yourself with it, from her rhythm you would know when to attack, defend or keep the midfield play. This might take take a few more sessions then the next time you are inside her, you can make her use her fingers in rubbing her clitoris.

Another way is to tell her to leave your hand on her vagina and tell her to use your hand to stimulate herself. She would be quite excited by your creativity.

Alternatively, you could play a game in which you both stay opposite one another facing yourselves but beyond arms reach, while looking at yourselves, masturbate until one of you loses control and attacks the other (more often than not, the man tends to lose control first).

Until next time, remember to take off her clothes (except if it’s a quickie), ask her to use her fingers to show you what she wants, make her comfortable with her body and with you, pay close attention to detail and if you are yet to put a ring on her finger, strap up, never leave your scuba gear behind before taking a plunge in the sea of love. Use a condom.

REMEMBER…………

Every woman, (no matter how beautiful, ugly, fat, thin, anorexic, bulimic or insecure she may be) wants and loves something and everything kinky.

Most of all……. Keep your woman and enjoy your sex life.

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Police arraign three for kidnapping, raping UNILAG student

Tinubu Magistrate Court

Three men, Bashorun Babajide,  Aje Olumayowa, and Babajide Ajayi, have been arraigned before the Tinubu Magistrate’s Court, Lagos State, for allegedly kidnapping and raping an undergraduate of the University of Lagos.

In the eight counts which the police preferred against the defendants, it was alleged that after raping the girl, the men also took snapshots of their victim and posted them on the Internet.

It was alleged that within a few days of the upload, the nude photographs went viral on social media, exposing Titiloye to ridicule and shame.

PUNCH Metro had reported in June, 2013 how the 22-year-old girl was abducted and raped at Ajose Street, on Lagos Island.

The crime was said to have been uncovered and reported to the police after the attention of the family members of the victim was called to the pictures circulating online.

The police told the court on Thursday that Babajide, Mayowa and Ajayi also assaulted and attempted to murder their victim.

The police said the incident occurred in April, 2013.

The three accused persons were arraigned for kidnap, rape, assault, battery, unlawful detention and attempted murder.

The charge read in part, “That you, Bashorun Babajide, M, Aje Olumayowa, M and Babajide Ajayi, M,   on the 28th day of April 2013, at about 1930hrs at No 1, Ajose Street, Lagos Island in the Lagos Magisterial District, did conspire to kidnap and rape.

“That you, Bashorun Babajide, m , Aje Olumayowa, m, and Babajide Ajayi, m, on the same date, time and place in the aforesaid magisterial district did detain one Tolulope Titilayo, f, 22 years without her consent for the purpose of unlawful sexual intercourse.

“That you, Bashorun Babajide, m , Aje Olumayowa, m and Babajide Ajayi, m, on the same date, time and place in the aforementioned magisterial district did unlawfully take the nude photograph of one Tolulope Titiloye, f, 22yrs, without her consent and posted same on the internet.”

The prosecutor said the offences were contrary to and punishable under Sections 409, 269, 144(1), 258, 135(2), 150(1)(2), 228, 56(a) of the Criminal Laws of Lagos State, Nigeria, 2011.

The defendants said they were not guilty of the charges.

It was reported that the complainant was not in court because she had not recovered from her ordeals in the hands of the culprits.

The magistrate, Mrs. S.K Matepo, admitted the defendants to bail in the sum of N100, 000 with two sureties each in like sum.

The matter was adjourned till October 2.

Don’t rush into agreements with ASUU – Lawan

Farouk Lawan
| credits: saharareporters.com

Former Chairman, House of Representatives Committee on Education, Mr. Farouk Lawan, on  Thursday advised the Federal Government against signing any agreement it would not honour with the striking members of the Academic Staff Union of Universities.

Lawan who rued the deteriorating situation of the universities, urged the Federal Government and ASUU to return to the negotiation table.

“What we hear is that ASUU has pulled out of the talks to end the ongoing strike; this will only worsen the situation. Both parties should return to continue with the talks.

“Frequent strikes undermine the quality and standard of our education”, Lawan told reporters in Abuja.

He observed that a major setback for government/ASUU relations over the years had been the signing of agreements that the government was not ready to implement.

According to Lawan, this happens because government is desperate to get the lecturers back to the classrooms after a prolonged strike.

He advised that in the ongoing discussions between the parties, government should restrain from making promises it was not willing to implement.

The lawmaker said, “Government often rushes into signing agreements because it is desperate to get lecturers back to the classroom.

“This is what has happened to the 2009 agreement, which is the cause of the current strike.

“Before then, there were other agreements up to 2009 and they always bordered on the lack of will to honour them.”

He also called on ASUU to find new ways of getting the government to honour its agreements or to adequately fund the universities “without necessarily going on strike.”

ASUU is demanding the payment of entitlements of about N87bn,  in addition to improving the general condition of the universities.

The current strike, which is over two months old, has dragged on because government said it could not afford to pay the money.

I don’t want to charm too many women – Sound Sultan

Sound Sultan
Lanre Fasasi a.k.a Sound Sultan discusses his career and also sheds light on his personality

You have been on stage for 12 years but you are not as aggressive as some of your colleagues.

It is not the aggression that matters but outliving one’s first performance.  I am happy that after 15 years, I have been able to remain relevant and I am still getting invites to perform at shows.    It is really important for us to bear in mind that humility sustains a successful career.  If you say I am not aggressive, that is because I am just being humble.

  How was your tour of the United States of America?

  It is very hard to do concerts   internationally— there are lots of heavy-weights involved in the business. You need sponsors too. Right now, I’m trying to put a DVD together.

What inspires you when you are writing songs?

I look at my situation; I look at the immediate environment and try to talk about everything that has happened now and in the past.  I have a wonderful memory, I remember things easily.

 You appear like an extremely shy person

Yes, every artiste has that, even the international ones, but I have come to realise that I cannot extend my shyness to making money.  I was an introvert but I am not that anymore. Now, I am an extrovert and I make money with aggression.

Do you sometimes feel intimidated?

No. There is no way I would feel intimidated because I always have something to say. But when I am alone and just being me, not Sound Sultan, I just want that privacy for a little while.  My approach is that if you don’t have anything to say, then keep quiet. People have made a lot of mistakes from talking without thinking.

What puts you off about people?

I can’t stand fake people.  Some youths feel they should behave like white people, it is so bad that  they cannot even identify with their parents sometimes, but I feel  people should  be proud of who they are.

What was your parents’ reaction when you opted for a career in music?

 My parents supported my brother and I 120 per cent. All they said was that we should make sure we go to school.

Apart from Baba Dee, who else was your role model when you were growing up?

When I was growing up, role models were very hard to come by, unlike now ,when there are so many players in the game, even though some people are still very stingy with their knowledge and experience. Back then, you could hardly come around a star, you would just be looking at them from afar.  But having Baba Dee  as my brother  was  a leverage,  he was already  several  steps  ahead of me  and he had already seen the game in different lights. He was going for competitions then and I was always backing him up.   I also had a lot of influence from Fela, Wyclef Jean, Tracy Chapman, Shade Adu and a few others. I never listened religiously to any artiste in those days but I always made sure I took a healthy dose of each artiste. I did not take too much so that the musician’s style would not reflect in my music.

What has fame done to you?

 I know a lot of young guys get carried away easily when they come into the scene newly. I giggle when I see that because sometimes you get tired of certain habits. I don’t know how long they can put up with such acts before getting tired.  I have related with international artistes and I have seen how wealthy they are and still, how grounded they are. I was level-headed before I met Wyclef Jean in 2010 but after that meeting, I became more level-headed. Whenever Wyclef, a multiple award-winning musician, calls me to inform me that he would be in Nigeria for my show, I am amazed at his modesty. Meanwhile, you would be begging Nigerian artistes to come to your show.

Where did the name, Sound Sultan, emanate from?

Then, my brother and sister were making fun of my previous name.  I was doing everything then, I was a rapper and I was an instrumentalist. So, they asked me if I wanted to continue my career with my funny name. I told them to give me another name and they said since I wrote different styles of music,   they would call me Sound Sultan— King of sounds. It’s like being a jack of all trades, master of all.

What does style mean to you?

 If I was a new guy in the game, I would submit to the fashion craze that is currently going on in the industry.    Everybody is going around asking, ‘who are you wearing?’ If I were a new guy,  I would be worried about who or what I am wearing but as it is, anything that comes to mind and which  I want to define myself with, is what I come out with.  Style is not about being trendy or doing what is in vogue.

But you do like fez caps

I have always used fez caps to cover my face since I was in school because of my shy nature; I still use them to shield my face.

Why don’t you wear  sunglasses?

I don’t want to charm too many people again because I am married.

How did you meet your wife?

I just met her.

How did she scale through your female admirers?

It would have been hard for her to scale through them, she was not a part of that crowd, she grew up in my neighbourhood, and I watched her grow up.

She was not a fan who was all over you?

She was not, I was begging her to even hear my song.

So how did you eventually date her?

I did  not talk to her in the neighbourhood because I did not want people to start talking about the relationship. I always met her somewhere away from the neighbourhood.

What’s next for Sound Sultan?

My sixth album is dropping very soon, I am excited, and we are planning a tour with my management outside the country. My artistes are recording their album as well. I keep my fingers crossed, God is in control.

I am my family’s engine room – Ifeoma, Pat Utomi’s wife

Dr. Ifeoma Utomi, Pat Utomi’s wife

For the first time, Dr. Ifeoma Utomi,  a Consultant Orthodontist at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital,  lecturer at the College of Medicine, University of Lagos, and wife of Prof Pat Utomi, shares her love story, among other things, with BOSEDE OLUSOLA-OBASA in this interview

You clocked 50 in July. How does it feel to clock the golden year?

Physically I don’t notice any difference but I feel happy and excited that I am able to get to this age. Looking back to my 40th birthday celebration, some of the people who were there are no more. That makes it a privilege to get to that age. I am glad that my bones are still strong. Some of my friends who came around for my 50th birthday expressed concern for me because I was wearing high heels for the occasion up till 9pm. They said I would feel the effect at my joints the next day. But the next day, I was up early to go about the day’s business and I did not feel anything. I give glory to God that I got to this age without any health challenge.

You still look like you are in your 30s. How do you maintain this youthful look?

I wish I still have a regular exercise schedule, but at times, environmental factors affect it. It requires disciple but it is possible. I used to observe three times a week real exercises. I do it for the recommended minimum of 20 to 25 minutes that aid the pumping of the heart. What I do now is fitness exercises in my bedroom at night for about 20 minutes. The evenings are more convenient for me. I seldom have the time to use the gym in my house.

How will you describe your 28 years marriage to your husband?

We have known each other for 30 years. It is a journey of faith when I reflect because when you meet someone you cannot tell where the journey may take you both. The fundamental thing is that steps like these must be committed to a high being and that is what I tell my daughters. I remember that when it was time for me to make that decision, I knelt down and told God that I needed someone that would make me happy and not just someone with money. I must say that the prayer has been answered beyond my expectation. My husband teases me sometimes, saying that it was getting married to him that made me move closer to God. That is true, although I was brought up as an Anglican and got married to a Catholic. It took me some time to flow with the Catholic but since I did, it has been very good. I recall that some incidents in our marriage, like a tragic accident he had in 1997, made our family to draw closer to God. I became more committed through the Full Gospel Men International. Apart from the spiritual aspect, being married to my husband has turned my life around in every aspect. He is an inspiration to me, very disciplined and that can be traced to his upbringing. As early as age seven, he was a Mass Server and that meant he had to wake up early everyday to be at his service point. He also went to Catholic boarding schools, which in those days, were known to instil high discipline in students – Loyola College, Ibadan and Christ the King College, Onitsha. My husband is a go-getter and I receive a lot of inspirations seeing the things he has accomplished. I used to think that I was smart until I met my husband. People also believe that I was smart back then in the secondary school, especially because I got the best final result in my school that no one else has surpassed. I have also benefitted in the social aspect too.

But you are seldom seen with him in public?      

I often hear people say, ‘Oh, we don’t see you,’ and I say every time you see him, I am right behind him, all you need to do is to imagine it. I can’t afford to be everywhere with him. But whenever I have to be somewhere with him, I do so. He is in the public but I have chosen to be the engine room. He understands and appreciates my preference to see that things are moving well back home. I believe that as he does well, it rubs off on me. If I had tried to project myself, we might have had issues earlier in the marriage.

How do you cope with the demands of your medical profession and raising the family?

Yes, I am a medical professional, but my profession gives me the time I need to look after the home front. As a student that was assumed to be very bright in my secondary school, I was urged to go into the sciences in the university. I chose medicine as my first course and dentistry as the second choice. I eventually read dentistry as my first degree and looking back, I think it was by divine arrangement. For my second degree, I specialised as an Orthodontist, which does not require one to be on night calls. If I had studied medicine, I would have been having night duties more often, and my husband used to and still travels a lot. I have to be there for the family. The kind of  job I got also gave me a good opportunity to see the children raised properly while taking good care of my husband and the numerous guests we entertain at different levels of the social strata. A woman should be there for all these, money is not everything although it is very important. I do tell young girls that once your husband is capable of meeting your basic needs and maybe you can travel out once in a year, you can do something that gives your family priority because children are tomorrow’s leaders. You must get their training right at the right time. Since I work for the government, I know my working hours and when work stops. Earlier in my career, I thought I should go into banking. That was in the early 90s. I remember what my husband said, ‘All that glitter is not gold.’ He was right because after what looked like the boom period in the banking sector, there was the great turbulence.

What was your typical day like, raising your children?

My schedule is quite different now, but those days, I had to wake up to get them ready for school. I had to pack their lunch. In the early days, I sometimes went with them to school and go to my work place. They were two then. After school and lesson, I ensured they returned home. They didn’t need lesson teacher at home, I supervised their home work. Raising kids is interesting, it gets to a stage that you have to clear your living room to make it safe for the baby to move around. I was very lucky because my first two kids were close in age, they lived like twins. I was lucky to have a girl first; she came along as one that moderated things for me. The boys still acted as boys though, but by training them, they all realised what they shouldn’t do. Generally, I am around with them until daddy gets back from work and we have dinner as a family. It was my choice to be available for the children because I could have engaged in private practice after my official job every day, but I shut down that option in order to be around the children. I decided that I would manage my resources because my salary  in those days was very small. The choice is up to you if you want to just make good money to buy all the Aso ebi or you want to convert your extra time to having well-groomed children.

Where was your first place of work?

My place of primary assignment was in a private practice. It was for about one year. Thereafter, I worked with the Ministry of Defence for about five years before I went for my postgraduate training, finished in 1999 and moved to the University of Lagos as a lecturer and a Consultant Orthodontist for the Lagos University Teaching Hospital. I actually work for two organisations.

Would you describe yourself as a successful woman?

Yes, to the extent that I have been able to reach some goals that I set for myself. It’s a lot of work in the academics where you are expected to publish or perish. But I am not just a teacher, I am also a clinician. I actually treat patients and also train other doctors in this area of specialisation. I have residents learning to be specialists. I also teach students in the university. By the time I get to where I am aspiring to be very soon – an associate professor – it will mean that I have contributed a lot. I have already been recommended for that, but I still have to attend a formal interview.

Do you feel comfortable with your husband’s social activism and political stance?

My husband is multifaceted. We share common grounds in many areas. I am also very passionate about issues that affect Nigerians. When he went into politics, I won’t say I was very happy because of the peculiar nature of politics in Nigeria. I had a problem with the kind of characters involved in Nigerian politics. But when I realised that Nigeria needed to get to the point that people can benefit from the immense resources that the country has, I had to support him.

Your husband appears like a perfect gentleman to most people. Is he really one?

In fact, my husband is more than a gentleman. I  told the whole family and friends on my birthday that I saw interesting love characters in the literature series I read in school but my husband has surpassed everyone I have ever read about. I told the children that their dad has swept me off my feet. There is no yardstick for measuring it; he has exceeded my expectation in every aspect of my life. Sometimes, I had to pinch myself to be sure it’s real, because I got more than I innocently asked God for when I was about to get married – a man that will make me happy. It was the same way I got the best result in my secondary school. I just knelt down and asked God for it and studied hard and it came true. God has blown my mind. You see the flowers at the entrance, the ones inside, they were all bought by my husband for me. My daughter just saw another bouquet and said ‘who brought this flower again?’ and when we checked, it was another one from my husband. He has just completely overwhelmed me in every aspect of my life. Even on my work, he motivated me to start writing a book.

Are you saying your romance is hotter now than when you began?   

Ah, I don’t know about when we began. I think the romance is greater now. In the earlier years, especially when we started having children, the love was there, but there were too many things to take care of. But now, the old wine is only getting better. I remember what he wrote on my birthday card, he was astonished that after 30 years that he has known me, it’s like we are just starting. Our relationship is also a positive influence on our children. They must be praying to have our kind of union and I am praying for them too.

Do you have any regrets in life?

I am thinking, but I don’t think so. At every point when something had happened, God turned it around. My husband has been associated with three major negative incidences. I mentioned the fatal accident in which his driver died in 1997, he was right there on the train of the London bombing and he got out from there. In my life too, God has been faithful. I have no regret.

Who are the other people that have influenced your life?

My father was the first land surveyor in Eastern Nigeria. My father encouraged me to read as a child. I remember the picture of him sitting by my side when I was a child to explain the stories to me and that is why those early years are so important in forming a child. My mother was a housewife, always there. They both positively impacted on my life.

What are your dreams?

My dreams are in different categories. I have dreams for my children. People usually tease me that I have three generations of children. I have two graduates-working-class, two undergraduates and my little boy. I desire great partners for them. In my career, I desire to touch more lives. For my husband, I desire to continue to support him in his every effort to touch lives.

How do you relax?

I love to just come closer to nature. Take cool breeze, gaze at the greens. That is why I have a lot of vegetation around my house. I also love to listen to soft music.

My friend and I once beat up a guy for messing up – Anita Joseph

Anita Joseph Actress, Anita Joseph, tells ‘Nonye Ben-Nwankwo about her career and why she is seen as a controversial actress

Did you eventually see your FJ Cruiser that armed robbers stole?

No. I didn’t even insure the car. It was just two weeks old. I feel sad anytime I remember it. I thank God I am alive. I was with my two nephews when they accosted us. They took us to Ogun State. Anyway, I still thank God.

 You seem to have moved up in your career

I thank God. The industry has really been favourable to me in recent times. I have been getting roles.

 Was it a movie that made you scrape your hair recently?

Yes. But I just did another job that required me to look like a lady. Now I wear weaves. My hairstyle actually depends on the job I am doing at a particular time.

 What is happening to your music career? Is it still alive?

Oh yes, it is. It is just that movie took over. Movie is a very jealous profession. It will be difficult for you to do movie and music at the same time. Movie has taken the better part of me. But I still cannot stop music. My album is not out.

 You were already an actress before you went into music?

Yes.

If you regard acting as a jealous profession, how come you went into music?

There was a time the movie industry wasn’t booming and the jobs were not coming as they should. Kenneth Okonkwo and KOK are my godfathers in the movie industry. I met KOK who told me to explore any other talent I had because the industry wasn’t doing well. My friends advised me to sing since I had the talent.

 You featured Flavour in one of your tracks. How did you get him to be a part of it?

Flavour is like an elder brother to me. Where he records his songs is the same place I record mine. It wasn’t difficult getting him on board.

 We heard Charles Inojie beat you up recently.

It is a movie, Ukpaka the Troublemaker. It didn’t happen in real life. The likes of Funke Akindele, Nkem Owoh and Amechi Muonagor are in the movie.

 We also heard how you and your girlfriend beat up one guy recently, was it also a movie?

No. The guy was messing up, so we beat him up. Something happened, although it is not something I really want to talk about.  The guy messed up and we beat him up.

 But ladies don’t just beat up somebody…

Well this is different. He messed up and he got beaten up for it. He is not an actor. He said some things about us that we couldn’t take, so he got beaten up for it.

 Why do people say you are controversial?

I don’t know. It might be because I used to wear skimpy clothes. I really don’t know why I am seen as a controversial actress.

 Apart from the skimpy clothes, you have been linked with so many scandals. A picture of you smoking weed also went viral…

That  was a location picture. I don’t even smoke cigarette let alone weed. Weed is not long when you fold it. I don’t even drink. All the stuff you watch are just acting.

 How come you stopped wearing skimpy clothes?

I noticed that wearing covered clothes fit me more.

 Could it be that your skimpy dressing made Afrocandy say she would want to feature you in her porn movie?

It should be. I have never said anything on that issue.

 You mean you never replied her?

No way. Sometimes, when you hear something, it will just be good for you to shut up.

But really, would you want to feature in her movie?

No! I can’t! How can I do pornography? I can wear short things but I can never do pornography. But I didn’t say anything to her. I learnt she would call me but she didn’t call me. I have never met her. I don’t even know her. She is not my friend.

 How did you feel when you saw her post saying she wished you would feature in the movie?

I was so embarrassed. I was ashamed of myself. Why me? But I didn’t want to react immediately. I read what other actresses she mentioned said. They blasted her. People were waiting for my comments. But I didn’t want to talk. I just kept quiet. It is not good to react when things are very hot. My industry is one that you get spoilt if you want to and you remain a good girl if you desire that as well. You have to be strong-willed to be a good girl. It is alright though. Some people can do porn but certainly not me.

 Why?

We are Nigerians and there are things our culture cannot tolerate. I don’t even know where she came from. I have not seen her. That was my first time of hearing her name. I had to go and check her out on her Facebook and I was really embarrassed.

 You say you are not a bad person, but you have been linked with so many things…

It is true. Before, I used to sit back and ask myself why people always pick on me. I think it comes with the job. Anything I do causes ‘trouble’. They say that I dated this person and that person. But ever since, I have been dating one man.

 Doesn’t he feel bad when he hears stuff about you?

He is a strong man. Anybody who loves you will stand by you.

 Is he going to marry you?

Yes.

 When?

Soon. But I am not thinking about marriage.

 Are you now friends with Ebube Nwagbo?

We have never been friends. It was just the media that made us enemies. We have never worked together and we have never been friends. But we were not enemies. But she is not a bad person. If they put us together on same set, I would gladly work with her.

We learnt you begged her to forgive you?

That wasn’t what happened. On her birthday, I used her picture as DP of my phone and I wished her a happy birthday. Next thing, I started reading that Anita was begging Ebube. She is not on my Blackberry Messenger list. But people just told her I used her picture as my DP.

 If she is not your friend, how come you used her picture on your DP?

I liked the picture and it was her birthday. I wanted to show her that I wanted peace. I knew the message would get to her and it actually got to her.

 Did she react?

I don’t know, I don’t think so. I didn’t bother to find out.

The major problem back then was Kcee of Kc Presh. Are you still his friend?

You are going to what happened many years ago. I don’t want to get into any of this. However, I am not his enemy. I am not at war with anybody. Please let us move away from this.

 What do you hope to do in the nearest future?

I am going to release my album, get married and settle down.

 So you really wish to get married?

Oh yes but not this year.

Who? The footballer?

Yes. We broke up and we came back again. I am not going to tell you his name. All you need to know is that he is based in Holland. He is from Anambra State.

I respect Ali Baba but AY is junior to me –Omobaba

Omobaba

Omobaba talks about his life and career in this interview with Kemi Vaughan

Were you born ‘Omobaba’?

My name is Fagade Oluwafemi Ademola, Kelvin Jnr. If you don’t mind, I’m a comedian of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and that’s what I do for a living.

 Why Kelvin Jnr?

Kelvin is my English name, and the ‘junior’ came from Ademola because my dad is Ademola and I’m the last of five kids.

 Much has not been heard about Omobaba lately; what have you been up to?

I’ve been around doing a lot of stuffs. I don’t know the TV you have been watching or maybe it’s because I stopped doing free shows. Well, Omobaba has a platform for new comedians and established ones. He has a talk show, runs a comedy show called ‘Unknot your tie with Omobaba’ which runs every week and is not easy to do. My album is also ready. I’ve been in the studio recording my album which is, about to go into the market. I’ve also been busy doing my TV show.

 Why don’t you do ‘free shows’?

All the shows you see on TV, we do them based on relationships majorly. Not all of them are paid for. Also, it might be because I’m being paid more somewhere on that same day and wouldn’t be able to make it to the other. But really, I’m on some of them.

 Still on ‘free shows’ are you referring to shows like ‘AY Live’, Bovi’s ‘Man on fire’ and the rest?

Don’t get me wrong. There are a whole lot of shows out there, not just AY Live, but if I’m on AY’s show, you don’t expect him to pay me the exact amount I charge. He’s a friend and a brother in the industry, so we always do ‘padi padi’.

 Are you saying AY can’t pay you?

He can’t! Why would he pay me? How can he pay me? He can’t pay me.

 Are you saying that AY cannot afford you?

AY is a comedian and he is doing well for himself, which I’m very happy for, but the fact is AY is a junior colleague to me in the industry.

 To some people, you are a business man, an actor, a musician also. What exactly do you do?

Simply call me a man of many talents. To some, God has given four, three, two and even one. It depends on how well you can manage them. I’m an actor, a writer, a comedian, a musician and I’m a business man. I’m not confused; I’m just making good use of my talents.

 Considering the fact that you have been in the industry for over 10 years and some people think you should have enough money to manage a home, why are you not married?

When the time comes, I’ll get married. I’m seeing somebody now anyway and we’ve been together for a while, but I don’t want her to be known because she’s not the publicity-seeking type. I see the way some people bring their private life to the public, making fools of themselves. Well, I’m not that kind of person and so is the person I’m seeing.

 But you are always seen with different girls at different shows…

Me! No. I don’t go to girls; they always come to me. Considering the fact that I am even finer now, girls just keep coming.

 Describe your future wife.

She’s beautiful; she will help the future of my kids when it comes to looks.

 Are you saying you are ugly?

I’m not, I’m a fine boy.

 How do you feel when you see older artistes struggling to meet up with the younger ones?

I’ve always been relevant and I’m still relevant in the market. Besides, it’s the other way round in the comedy industry, unlike the music industry. The younger ones in comedy are striving to beat the records of the older ones in the industry. I mean jokes that were composed 10 years ago still make more meaning than the ones they are composing now. I’ll say I’m the middle man in the comedy industry, I didn’t start from the top and I’m not part of the last. I have bosses like Ali (Baba), Gbenga, Julius, T.A, Basorge, Okey Bakassi, Klint, Gandoki, Basket Mouth. I met those people in the industry and we are still doing very well. The upcoming ones are not bad, but we are not challenged. If you cannot afford me, that is why you are not seeing me or Koffi on the bill. So you go for a cheaper product which you can afford. Yes, because you will not see Ali Baba averywhere because he will charge you.

 Is Alibaba better than you?

Yes he is! In fact he is a boss. He holds record of the comedian who has stayed on stage for  six good hours. I respect him a lot.

 What  is your most embarrassing moment?

That wust be the day somebody looked at me and said I looked like 2Shots. How can anybody say I look like 2Shots? I’m way finer and taller than he is. It was quite embarrassing to me.

 What if you are now compared to ‘I go die’

If someone compares me with ‘I go die’, I will die! In fact I will just die.

 Do you have anything against him? Or is it that he is too ugly?

I’m finer, way finer. I will tweet it very soon, that if anyone compares me with ‘I go die’, I will die. That’s how painful it is.

 How have you been able to avoid scandals?

Well I’ve learnt to cut my coat according to my cloth. To always be myself, and not try to be what I’m not.

 What is next for you?

I want to become a father, although nobody is carrying my child yet.

Scam-dalous wishes Omobaba all the best

I’m getting married soon - Benita Okojie

Benita Okojie
In the 90s, Benita Okojie, at the tender age of 12, was a sensation as a gospel music child artiste.  Now 24, the multiple award-winner relives the experience of stardom and adulthood

Child   stars face a lot of pressures while growing up, did you experience such?

 I did but the winning factor for me was the close relationship I had with God and my family.  I did not shut my loved ones out of my life. They are the ones who can tell me the truth about anything, no matter how big it is. I have a good relationship with my parents and I talk to them about everything. My mother, especially, was a pillar of strength for me and I was able to tell her a lot of things and she helped me through all the changes. I am a very spiritual being and I pray a lot.

How did you handle the superstar treatment in school?

The early stages of the job were very harsh on me. I had friends who just had issues with my person, not necessarily because I did anything wrong but because they felt that I was going around with a larger than life image. I do not think that was the situation but because I am out there, everybody wants to judge me based on what they don’t even know.  I thank God for my parents and my siblings who helped and supported me all the way. I made very good friends also. Now, I am a graduate. I have friends who I hook up with once in a while and we hang out and attend functions together.

What has changed about your career now as an adult?

The difference is not so significant because I will always do indigenous songs. It is a language which I am able to express myself in. But I am going to do a lot of English songs as well because I know my fan base extends to people who do not understand Edo songs. There are some foreigners too. Recently, I checked our facebook page and saw a lot of foreigners posting comments there.

What lessons have you learnt as an adult?

I have learnt about growth. As a young lady, boys will seek one’s attention but one should learn to have a great relationship with guys while setting boundaries with them at the same time. Your parents should always be people you respect, no matter how big you are and how much money you make. You would always need parental love and support. Mine have been there for me all the time. Sometimes, when the youthful exuberance in me crops up, my parents would always make sure that I stay grounded. They always remind me of where I am coming from, where I am going and what I have done. That has kept me balanced. Guys would come and go but your parents would always be there.

What has been happening to your music career?

I am working on a couple of singles and a talk show but while I am still waiting for all of that, I am having as much fun as I can have.

What about marketing your songs?

I don’t think I can handle that but I have put friends and family members in place to assist me, they are also learning in the process. My sister is my personal assistant and my mother works with the board of my management and that helps a lot. It is easier to communicate with family. Whenever outsiders are brought in, they are made to understand that I am more of a family girl and we always like to do things together. This helps us to be focused. I don’t allow business to becloud what I do. Most importantly, I am a gospel artiste and my job is to win souls for Christ. If money comes, it will help facilitate what I do well but it should not be the basis for doing what I do.

Are you limiting yourself to gospel?

I do inspirational songs. Whenever I go for concerts and they tell me they have a mixed crowd and would like me to mix songs that are not purely gospel, I would get songs like Whitney Houston’s Greatest Love of All, Mariah Carey’s Hero. These are songs that inspire and motivate. The most important thing is that you pass a positive message across to people.

What does style mean to you?

It is what I am comfortable in. Anything is suitable for me but I just like to look my age, I don’t like to dress older than my age.

How old are you now?

I am in my 20s.  I am sure you know that women have an issue with revealing their age. I am enjoying my 20s.

What are your favourite accessories?

I love rings a lot. They are very fashionable to wear. I like wearing them until the real ring comes.

When?

Very soon. You should get an invitation when the time comes.

Is the man also a musician?

No.

What does he do?

No comment!

What is your favourite food?

It is amala, I like eating it with ewedu and turkey soup. It is my favourite and I have also learnt to prepare it.

What is a typical day like for you?

I wake up, pray and blog, but I have not blogged for a long time now because I have been investing money in a song we are working on. Sometimes, I rehearse. I am learning to play the guitar and I check how far I have gone in perfecting my guitar playing skills.  Then, I go on social network to see what impact my project is making in the lives of people.  I also try to answer as many messages as possible.  I do house chores. My parents don’t let me go out without doing my portion of the house chores. I clean my room and wash the plates. I have to do all the things that I should do in the house because I will become a wife some day.

How do you handle pressure?

There is no particular way of handling pressure but when I am pressurised, I pray.

What is your advice to young girls, who see you as a role model?

Pray and continually follow your dreams. Be sure it is what God wants for you, then pursue it wholeheartedly. Let God be the winning factor in your life. Also, make sure you have a great family who supports what you do. Remain steadfast; start and follow through with the project or you will fail.

Have you ever had sad moments in life?

When there are challenging moments, I always look at the positive side.

Assassins attack Young Shall Grow boss, kill driver and escort

Chief Vincent Obianodo

Some suspected hired killers attacked the Managing Director, Young Shall Grow Motors Limited, Chief Vincent Obianodo, killing his driver and police escort.

It was learnt that Obianodo was shot in the arm during the attack.

A police source said the incident occurred in the FESTAC area of Lagos State on Tuesday night while Obianodo was returning from work.

According to the Punch newspaper, it was learnt that two of the attackers were killed after policemen engaged them in a gun duel.

The source said, “On Tuesday night, Obianodo was on his way back from work. A police corporal, Ngozi Chijioke, and another private guard were in the vehicle with him.

“When they reached 22 Road, FESTAC, the entire place was deserted. From nowhere a vehicle crossed Obianodo’s  and some armed men opened fire on them. The policeman, who sat in front, was killed instantly while the driver was also killed.

“The assailants also shot Obianodo in the arm. However, the shooting attracted the attention of some policemen on patrol who rushed down to the scene and engaged the culprits in a gun duel.”

It was learnt that two of the attackers were killed while others escaped with bullet wounds.

The source told our correspondent that the assailants were probably hired killers.

He said, “The way the attackers operated seemed as if it was an assassination attempt. Most times, kidnappers do not shoot their victims while trying to abduct them. At most, they only kill the person’s guard and abduct the victim unharmed.

“In this case, they shot him in the arm and would have killed him if the police had not arrived on time.”

Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, confirmed the attack to our correspondent on the telephone, adding that efforts were on to apprehend the suspects.

“The attackers escaped with bullet wounds. We are therefore calling on hospitals to report cases of bullet injury to the nearest police station as this would increase our chances of arresting the culprits,” she said.

Braide said she could not say for sure if the attack was a kidnap, robbery or assassination attempt .

Pandemonium at Seme Border

There was mayhem at the Seme border area of Lagos State on Thursday after a 35-year-old man, Saturday Joel, was shot by officials of the Nigerian Customs Service.

Eyewitnesses said Joel was hit by a stray bullet while some customs officers were trying to apprehend a motorist who was smuggling a red Volkswagen bus from Benin Republic into Nigeria.

It was learnt that after the shooting, some residents took to the streets in protest. The residents were said to have alleged that customs officials had killed at least three motorists this month under the pretext that they were smugglers.

It was learnt that in the ensuing pandemonium, the customs officials stationed in the area fled. However, a Superintendent of Customs, identified as J. I Motojelu, was said to have been driving by at the time.

According to PUNCH Metro, it was learnt that in retaliation, the angry mob, led by a community leader, dragged the officer out of his Toyota Corolla car marked ABJ 663 DW, and killed him.

It was also learnt that the irate mob, set the deceased officer’s vehicle ablaze and set up bonfires at the centre of the road.

The culprits were said to have used the opportunity to steal some items that had previously been seized by customs.

A police source said, “Motojelu, who knew nothing about the incident was beaten to death. The mob opened a customs patrol van stationed nearby and took a G3 rifle with 30 rounds of ammunition kept inside it. They then set the vehicle ablaze.”

Sources told our correspondent that some customs officials and policemen later returned to the scene and fired shots to disperse the mob.

Director, Lagos State Fire Service, Razaq Fadipe, said his men attempted to put out the fire but they had to retreat because of the sporadic gunshots in the area.

It was learnt that the victim had been rushed to a nearby hospital for treatment.

But the NCS Public Relations Officer, Seme Command, Ernest Olattah, said in a statement that the officer was killed while on his way to attend a meeting at the command.

He said, “We announce the gruesome killing of one of our senior officers by some smugglers in the Ashipa area of Seme around 9.50am on Thursday. The deceased officer, while in his official uniform, unarmed, and driving to the command’s headquarters for a routine meeting, was accosted by a mob who forced him out of his vehicle.

“Led by an identified chief of the community, the officer was murdered in cold blood, while his vehicle was set ablaze.”

The customs spokesman said efforts were on to apprehend the culprits adding that the customs had achieved many feats this year alone.

He said NCS operatives, due to their uncompromising stance against smuggling and the protection the nation’s economy, had come under series of attacks by smugglers and some unpatriotic elements that saw smuggling as their rights.

The PRO said, “Customs Area Controller of Seme Border, Othman Abdu Saleh, has in collaboration with sister government agencies including the police, commenced moves to bring the perpetrators of the heinous crime to book. The controller posits that this unfortunate incident will not deter operatives of the command under his watch from carrying out their lawful duties.

‘’This is indeed a sad day for us here in this command, but let me emphasise that we are not relenting in the discharge of our duty as we will not allow the darkness of criminality to dampen the light of our service to Nigeria.”

Lagos Police Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, told our correspondent on the telephone that seven suspects had been arrested, adding that they would be transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba.

She said, “Joel is recuperating at Badagry General Hospital while the slain customs officer has been deposited at the mortuary.”

Does You Woman Masturbate - Part 4

I'm personally impressed that more women are fessing up to this. My fellow men out there it's time we all get considerate and make our women happy in bed as well

Let's look at their other toys

Dildos

 

 

Those penis-shaped objects which men hate to see around. Some are exact replicas of the real deal and come in all shapes, sizes and curvatures which are quite handy for women who like to achieve G-spot orgasms, or the multi-talented ones that can penetrate themselves with their dildos and stimulate their clitorises at the same time. This way, they can ensure mind-blowing results.

Vibrators

 

Contrary to popular opinion these are not restricted to just battery operated handheld rabbit-shaped (or any other shape for that matter) devices. It also includes personal massager (a funky name for vibrators) or the washing machine or spin cycle (a gadget originally created to help women attain orgasm, but ultimately became popular for its ability to launder clothes). Women use these appliances to climax when the need arises. Also used by women who find it difficult to climax on their own.

Showerheads

 

Yes, gentlemen. You read right. Showerhead. You are probably wondering “HOW?” It would be nice to know what other functions those removable showerheads have been put to before using it next time. She could be doing more than just “rinsing thoroughly”. Many women love those showerheads, simply because after they’ve finished beating around the bush, voila!, they are clean. The feeling of the cold water’s speed hitting the clitoris provides quite a stimulating feeling.

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