A Birthday Ode To My Father

                                       My Father's Son

Thoughts of my father are mixed.

Growing up with a single parent was tough.

Especially when that single parent is a man.

A few bitter ones, but mainly fond thoughts.

Because I am my father’s son.

Bitter memories of the choices you made dad

But as I grew up and became a man

I found out they were corrective measures

to my lack of good judgement.

Because I am my father’s son.

I picked up a few habits

And trust me, all of the bad ones too.

Surprising how easy it is to pick up after older ones

What else can I say……

Well, I am my father’s son.

I realise today that I didn’t get the expensive toys I asked for

So I could be like my peers.

But that was so I could eat 3 square meals and have a better education.

The sacrifices you made, but my young mind, too selfish to understand.

But then………..

I am my father’s son.

I look at you now and smile

Because I know I contributed to your strong hands

From the all too frequent slaps and smacks I got for stepping out of line.

As my father’s son.

Look at me now dad.

I’m a better man today because of you.

Thanks for all the love, perseverance and understanding.

Thanks for all the sacrifices you made because of me.

For I am my father’s son.

This is just a note to let you know

I have never said it to you though

I could never have asked for a better father

And I appreciate you so.

I love you dad

I always have and always will

Because of you I am proud to say

I AM MY FATHER’S SON.

Happy Birthday Dad!!!

Written by

Tony Obijeih