A good woman makes a good wife and a good wife becomes a good mother. A good mother gives birth to a good child. If you want to be one, emulate the tips below :
1). Never raise your voice for any reason at your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family, friends and church members. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty-handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed ones).
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Never ever encourage your children to disrespect their father for any reason. Wise women don't do that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. It's always team work.
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family.
30+) Never ignore or stop giving care to your husband in times of medical, physical or emotional challenges. Neither should you discourage your children to stay away from their father under such circumstances. When your time comes, as it surely will.... then you'd remember numbers 1 - 30+.
30++) If you are a woman reading this and guilty of most of the points listed above and still blame your husband, take a good look in the mirror. That's who caused it all. Accept the fact that the person you see in mirror is unwilling to learn. Pack your bags and go back to your parents house or village. You have no place in marriage.
Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage or life you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided. God Almighty knows best.
Written by
Tunde Erejuwa
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