Dangers of Modernization to Lagos Girls

Modernization has it's benefits but also has it's downsides when used senselessly. I always find it amazing how easily swayed a lot of Lagos girls can get, all in the name of FA (feel or feeling among). A lot of otherwise decent girls have turned themselves into "feel-Amongers" for no sensible reason. I do not understand because their current state of mind can either cause them their

• pride/dignity, 
• relationships
• lives

I would ask a few questions just to buttress my point;

1. What shall it profit a girl to accept an outing with a guy, only for them to get there, she order her food and drinks while constantly chatting on her phone or tab and totally ignoring the guy who took her out to spend his precious time and money on her? Na carpenter carve the guy?
2. What is the wisdom or lack of it thereof, when after eating and drinking to her satisfaction, she then orders take away for her "room mates" or friends, all on the guys' bill? Is he their father?
3. What is the common sense behind Lagos girls walking in the middle of the road, with their earphones plugged into their ears with the volume on max and chatting at the same time? Do they have eyes on top of their heads and ears on their asses?
4. Why take pictures in hotel and club bathrooms? Will your camera phones not work on the dancefloor or any other decent place? If they must, don't they have bathrooms in their hostels or in their parents houses?

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